Starting Simple: A No-Judgment Guide to Sex Toys for Beginners

different types of sex toys

Everyone’s sexual journey is unique, so using sex toys may not be something that you’re totally familiar or comfortable with. However, if you think it’s time to start exploring toys, you don’t have to worry about how to figure out the best one for you. Follow this guide from the VSekreets experts for the best beginner sex toys! We’ll cover which sex toys may work for you, how to use sex toys, and which toys work best together.

1. Vibrator Wand

A vibrator is a great sex toy for beginners because it’s easy to use and lightweight. You can find a range of options that include a variety of vibration modes and intensity settings. We recommend the wand for women who want clitoral stimulation without penetration. Most wands in our collection are waterproof, compact, and versatile so you can explore however and whenever you want. Simply hold the head of the wand up to your clitoris and play with the settings until you find the perfect intensity!

2. Couple’s Vibrator

There are a few options here for those couples who are a little more daring. This is one of the best beginner sex toys because it involves both people to enhance your shared sexual experience. Use the vibrator remotely to stimulate her or during penetrative sex to elevate your experience together.

How you use this sex toy can be a little more intimidating because it involves both of you. The woman should insert the vibrator into her vagina first and adjust it to her comfort level. Once she’s ready, her partner can insert his penis alongside the vibrator. We love this sex toy for beginners because it encourages more communication and intimacy as you learn together!

3. Dildos

a selection of glass dildos

Whether you’re using a dildo alone or with a partner, it’s one of the least intimidating sex toys to start with. A body-safe silicone dildo provides a sensation most like skin, and dildos come in a variety of shapes and sizes so that you can customize your experience. Explore short dildos, long dildos, dildos made of glass, dildos with suction cups for hands-free use, and dildos that double as vibrators!

How you use this sex toy is really about penetration. Find the ideal angle for you and control the speed and depth, using your hand on the base for ultimate control.

4. Cock Rings

Don’t worry, guys; we haven’t forgotten about you! If you’re looking for something specifically for the men, a cock ring is a great place to start. Cock rings are well-known to improve blood flow to the penis for harder erections and more intense orgasms. Some rings provide simple pressure, while others vibrate for extra stimulation along the penis and for your partner!

Place the cock ring at the base of your penis and proceed with your sexual adventures as usual. You can combine the cock ring with a couple’s vibrator or dildo for extra pleasure.

What’s Next?

As you gain confidence in how to use sex toys, you can start experimenting with more advanced options. Check out our best-sellers to see what else sex toys have in store for you!

Meet the Author

VSekreets has been an online adult toys store for both men and women for over a decade and an expert in their industry. Selling high-tech adult toys at affordable prices, they excel at designing body-safe products made of fine, silicone materials with modern construction and even created patented molds for their products. As a leader in their industry, they offer educational advice on sexual wellness and tips for intimate experiences.