- Sexual fantasy role-playing can boost intimacy between partners.
- Role-playing can reinvigorate a predictable sex life.
- Adult role-playing can be as simple or as complex as you desire.
If you are looking for ways to boost intimacy with your partner, consider role-playing. With a little imagination, you may come up with a variety of sexual role-playing ideas and scenarios that could fill a need you don’t know you have.
Sexual role-playing is more popular than ever. If you’d like to give it a try and need a place to start, today’s post will help.
Why Take Part in Sexy Role Play?
Fantasy role-playing with sexually active adults may offer the following benefits:
- Reinvigorate sexual interest and boost libido.
- Introduce fresh and unpredictable elements into your sex life.
- Boost your confidence to take part in activities you may otherwise avoid.
- Offer a safe space to explore forbidden sex acts or taboo behavior.
- Provide access to unattainable sexual partners.
And last but not least, sexy role-playing may give you the biggest orgasms you’ve ever had. Does that sound like fun? If so, let’s get started!
Breaking the Ice
Coming up with sexual role-playing ideas and performing them may come naturally to some, but others may think “play acting” is childish. And to that we say, “Maybe! But it’s also a lot of fun, so stop taking yourself so seriously and loosen up.”
If you are worried about embarrassment, getting over that feeling can be part of the fun. Those who can fully engage in sexy role-playing with their partner usually get the most out of it.
Finding Ways to Communicate
If you are having a hard time thinking of a way to discuss your role-playing desires with your partner, begin with a typical conversation. Keep it lighthearted and casual, and try one of the following phrases to guide the discussion to sexy role-playing.
“I was reading this article about role-playing. Kind of like Dungeons and Dragons, with dicks. What do you think?”
“Have you ever thought about acting out a fantasy?”
“We should go somewhere and pretend we don’t know each other and meet for the first time all over again!”
Of course, there’s no way for us to tell you exactly what to say. You may want to have an article about sexual role-playing ideas on hand, or you could mention how hot you think an actor or actress looks in a costume in a movie, video game, or television program.
Define Limits and Set Boundaries
Setting limits and boundaries before you play is essential because it creates a perimeter of safety that is necessary to fully engage in sexy role-playing activities.
Have an honest discussion before you role-play and determine when your session will begin and when it will end. Knowing when to start and stop will help you transition and find your inner voice.
Discuss your activities, set rules, and determine how you will communicate when in character. Go over the things that you would like to do, what activities would be okay but not essential, and activities that are off limits. Will there be penetration? Anal? Some couples use non-verbal forms of communication, safe words, and trigger words for control.
Costumes, Props, Scripts
Sexy role-playing can be as simple or complex as you like, depending on what sexual role-playing idea you have in mind.
Costumes and props may include dresses, shoes, gloves, belts, hats, and undergarments. You can find a lot of these things at discount stores, or you can buy them online. For specialty props, check sources like Spirit Halloween stores, Etsy, and eBay. Some online sex shops carry role-playing costumes, and VSekreets carries unique sex toys that may be suitable for your fun.
Role-playing dialogue should fit the persona of the character. It is usually unscripted and ad-libbed, but indulge yourself if you want a script!
Pro tip: A little rehearsal will help you figure out how to move, what to say, and how to say it. Rehearsal can boost confidence and help your role-playing session come to life.
10 Sexy Role-Playing Scenarios
Here are 10 typical adult role-playing scenarios to help get you started.
- Dentist/Doctor with patient
- Guard and prisoner
- Police with a suspect
- Kidnapper and victim
- Teacher and student
- Hookup at a bar
- Barbarian or medieval king/queen
- A contractor working on the house
- Delivery driver
You can play these roles in the privacy of your bedroom or take them public, depending on your comfort level.
Keep it Fresh
Even the best sexual role-playing idea can grow stale if used too often. Most fantasies are good for a few performances only, so don’t worry about long-running engagements. Switching up your sexy role-playing games and letting them evolve naturally will help to keep your orgasms intense, fresh, and volcanic.
Don’t Forget the Aftercare
When it’s all over, make sure to talk about it. Lots of cuddling and closeness will help cement trust and reaffirm the intimate bonds between you. Good aftercare can help you learn more about each other and make future role-playing sessions more fun.
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